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'HELP I'M FEELING STUCK!' CHANGING MY BLOG HABITS

Friday, February 24, 2017



I've gone through so many versions of this post, both in my head and on paper, and I still don't know what the heck I want to write. I've made all the excuses - 'I'm too hungry to concentrate I'll go eat a pot of houmous first', 'this chair isn't comfy, I can't possibly write here I'll do something else' or 'OOOH a new 80's playlist let me imagine myself living my best life at a karaoke bar' but I just need to get this feeling out of my brain.

Cool, so, I wrote this big ass post about 10 minutes ago and it's taken me hours to write because I really hated it, like really hated it because it was moany and borderline pleading for help if I'm honest, and I've nothing against asking for help, but I am against the tiny seed of worry that's been slowly gaining cell space inside me and making me feel super crap recently.

Remember the blog post I wrote about lacking productivity? That still feels relevent, and it's been forever, and I'm kinda done with feeling like that so I've been taking some fair liberties with trying to address what's up and making myself see things in a positivie light again.

The main issue is my blog habits. Man I feel on a real roll right now writing this and that's when I know this feels right - my blog habits have sucked recently (and that's all I'm going to say on the matter now because we are not letting sucky nonsense take pride of place today) and I've been trying to work out what I can do to make it better. I've been really enjoying Hannah's content recently, specifically this post on changing her content style and it's what kicked me into deleting the last version of this. I need to make some changes, and asap.

Going back through my blog - even if it makes me cringe.

In my head I'd decided my content up until January was a bit blah, but in revision it wasn't - it was just so easy and basic to write I simply did it, even if it wasn't some super cool review of a lipstick or was all very product sample based and not authentically me, I could churn out anything. I think that's been a big weighted factor on my mind - how to be authentic in myself and my writing yet make somehting out of nothing without it becoming an essay. I think the factor here is overthinking. Even though my photography could be better (hell it IS better, I know I'm good) in my previous posts, that doesn't detract from what I've done as it got me here, and can hopefully give me a kick up the bum into writing a product review without having a personal crisis over 'how do I describe this shade of pink?!'

List everything, because lists are the gateway to the soul. Or something.

One bad blog habit I've had is opening up a post and staring at it for hours, before giving up and then writing some half-hearted paragraphs late at night. Call me crazy, but somehow writing my post in list form on paper before typing it up gives my brain some sort of direct brain dump in contrast to going straight to the keyboard. It almost helps me distinguish what I want to say, what isn't needed, and what genuinely is too much waffle. I'm looking at a list for this post right now (one of three lists for this post) and 3/4 of it isn't needed, it doesn't need to be said, but getting it out of my head makes me feel better about writing it all down and working on things in the future. Like writing shorter snappier posts, hopefully.

Follow your cravings. Even if it's hummus. Or houmous. Or hummous.

Something that comes up a lot when I try to reason with myself is 'I'm craving to do this, I'm craving to try that, I'm craving some damn pittas rn' and that's what I need to impliment into my blog habits - doing what I crave. Such things include fashion posts (I know, who am I? Who have I become?), 'doing me', chatting to other people, trying new things (especially knitting) and I crave being around people who want to chat and do interesting things. Basically, I want it to feel easy and fun and still be enjoyable work, always.



Before I try to write some sort of summary paragraph about what I learnt today, I'm going to leave you loves whilst I'm happy with this post and close up shop for the weekend, because when all's said and done, there's a pot of houmous calling my name and that's what I'm craving in life right now...

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A TRIP TO KENT - WHISTABLE AND MARGATE

Wednesday, February 22, 2017



I'm the least likely of people to spontaneously pack up for a few days, but last week, that's exactly what I did - throwing my non-existent plans out the window and heading across to the Kent coast for two days of exploring and sea air.

It wasn't exactly a switch-off holiday, but I used it mainly as a chance to 1. get away and explore new places and 2. take photos purely for my self enjoyment. I've always loved taking photos of the beach and the people around it, ever since I was studying - it's those moments where you capture someone's life and day, see a dog in it's element or watch how the sky meets the sea and the lines blur together (if you're not singing Blurred Lines now, chances are, you will be. Soz.)






I did briefly stop off in Canterbury beforehand, only to sample the deliciousness of Kitch Cafe which does some incredible vegan brunch - I went for pancakes, because there's not many chances for me to eat vegan pancakes that are actually decent, and they were perfectly balanced between sweet and devourable.

Now I'm going to keep this short and sweet, purely because I think the photos do more justice than words, but I do have some recommendations...

Whistable Beach is lovely and moody, perfect for pictures and even more perfectly lined with pastel and brightly coloured houses that remind me of San Francisco. There are lines and line of oysters which is the main pull to the town, but it's nice to walk along the coast and get that fresh air.

For your stationery needs, Harbour Books has the usual books and pens on offer, but I really loved the wall of art books on offer and Gemma Correll illustrations - a good browse, makes you want to buy a lot of pens and greeting cards.

A bit of an odd one, but Staines Farm Shop was packed with so much fresh produce, and possibly the biggest lemons outside of Sorrento. Pick up one big ass sweet potato and get your carb on for dinner.












I went to Margate with good intentions, hopeful to walk around Dreamland and scout out some vintage, but sadly the former was closed and I only managed to find one or two shops I kinda liked in the amount of time we had.

Firstly, a vegan cafe find! Vegan Victory Cakes is tucked away off Old Town, and is cute and quaint. Rather than have a cake I opted for vegan tuna bagels which, hand on heart, the best childhood throwback minus the fishy taste - I used to eat tuna every day, so this was a real treat, and even better that it was all vegan friendly.

If you're a fan of art and home design, then Maxine Sutton is a lovely studio/shop filled with chairs, pillows, and the like. I really like the use of colour and line in each piece, and honestly if I was decorating a whole house I'd be going mad for a couple of the lamps ;)





With my lungs fully loaded with sea air, I'm happy to slip back into my non-existant spontenaity for a little while - just get me a cute pastel beachside house for the weekends...

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THE 6 MONTH PLAN + 2017 GOAL REVIEW

Monday, February 20, 2017



I know this may be a bit premature seeing as it's Mid-February and I only set goals a month ago, but it feels as though time has passed quickly and I'm losing check of myself already! January and the beginning of February were a bit mad and stressful, and I didn't feel I could do what I wanted (then again, both those months are grey and blah and if you go outside, you mad bro) so with hibernation season seemingly over, I wanted to recap and see how I can make the best shiz happen over the next 6 months.

The idea of a deadline really gets you into motion, and already I've seen a shift in how I'm using my time, but I want to make sure I'm keeping my goals for the year in mind and feel happy with how I'm progressing - 6 months can fly, and I always find that once March is over, it's pretty much speed x8 until November and then hey Christmas! If you're needing a kick up the butt yourself, take note from a few of my own aims for the next 6 months...

Work around and on my tiredness
I'm going to get a bit psychological now - through various tests (all online, cough) I've worked out my personality and my introverted habits, and researched into all the whats and whys but more importantly the hows when making the most of my energy resources. 'According to recent studies' introverts have very active RAS aka reticular activating system which means you stimulate brainwork and active social energy continuously and entering into situations where you have to be more social can drain you, and coupled with my 'oh do people like me? Am I oversharing? What other worries do I have? Oh I'll just be quiet' I'm usually ready for a nap and some chocolate by 3pm.

So how does this relate? Well, I'm attempting to manage 'doing fun shiz' with 'feeling balanced and zazzed' as much as possible; after an event in London last week (in which I left at 11 and got home at 8:30) I felt surprisingly perky - granted I dipped a little inbetween but after a nice vegan burger in GBK I was more than restored to full health ;) It all comes down to a little bit of planning and time management, which leads me too...

See people!
I'm pretty chuffed in that I already have 3 dates in the diary to meet up with peeps, but I know there's more to do - I want to see people to catch up, and to also do fun creative things, and I want to go visit others and have them visit me! The most part is me feeling scared asking, but the worst is someone says 'nah mate' so I'ma keep sliding in those DMs for now.

• Confidence driving on the motorway
Again, this is mostly all linked; I know I can drive on a motorway as I drove to Devon twice when I first passed my test, but now when I see an M sign I freak a little. It has put me off visiting a lot of people and going to new places, but after driving a lot the past week, it doesn't seem so bad or scary. Just whip me up a motivational CD (yep I still only have a CD player in my car) over a few test trips and I'll hopefully be driving places in no time!

Save up for that studio equipment
I've always loved having a range of equipment, and watching various people's content inspires me to achieve a similar quality or better myself to provide cooler services and produce creative things, and let me tell you my dream equipment list is looonngggg but I want to keep on saving and working to tick a few items off that list.

Stick to the fuck budget
When I'm feeling lack and all loss of motivation, I like to read over my fuck budget - it's funny, and it reinspires me. Some noteworthy budgets include me time, jumpers, time to create, bread (obvs), feminisim, taking photos, feeling good, and exploring things I'm interested in. About time I started knitting I think...

• Achieve something big work-wise
Reading this post back, I noticed a lack of work/blogging goals and whilst I made a concious decision not to have any number or level-unlocking resolutions, I do still want to grow and achieve great things. Whether it's my photography business growing, my blog reaching more people or working with amazing people and having recognition, it would be awesome to set the wheels in motion during the next few months.


There's definitely still a few things on my 2017 goals list I have time to work on - dermatologist sessions are something I really need to look into, as well as booking in a few events and not talking myself out of commitment. Mostly, I really want to get started on a project be it a personal one or planning workshops, but I also want to up my photography business game in general - hint hint if you're based in London/Surrey/Brighton and need photos, get in touch!

Here's to time slowing down a bit, some deserved chill time, and the next 6 months - now someone pass me the knitting needles whilst I plan to see every single person I know asap...

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3 FACE MASKS FOR CLEAR SKIN (ACNE PRONE)

Friday, February 17, 2017



Currently I'm in a second wave of under-skin breakouts, those annoying ones that just sit there not doing anything unless you touch them and they go as red as the Comic Relief noses, and it's safe to say I'm not feeling it. Because it's all a bit sensitive I'm easing back into my face mask routine, which in the last month worked wonders - honestly, my skin felt super soft and clear enough without a trip to the dermatologist (although I'm constantly dreaming of the mico-dermabrasion machine that sucks out all the gunk, so fresh and so clean clean.)

As I said, I've got a face mask routine pretty much down now and it's really made a difference in my complexion overall - after cleansing, I take a chemical exfoliant like REN Glycolactic Radience Renewal Mask to remove the dead skin cells and flaking dry patches, and also because the acids go deep into the pores and remove the build up of congestion; imagine your blackheads are a test tube - when you pop the head out, you're only removing a top layer of gunk, which will then be pushed up from the bottom and making that pore look full again (this is why it's key to use acids and clarifying masks in conjunction to really remove as much congestion as possible!)

Speaking of congestion, one of my favourites for clearing pores is Vichy Pore Purifying Mask* which keeps skin hydrated whilst pulling everything out and keeping it calm. My skin looks a lot clearer and pores tighter afterwards, but if I need something a bit more calming I usually go for Elemis Herbal Lavender Mask to reduce redness and treat more sensitive spots - both work a charm when mixed together also, so you can cure two birds with one stone ;)

With all the stripping and pulling, I like to give my skin some life back with lots of moisture and hydration - for a more moisturising effect, I like Antipodes Aura Mask* but the one I find gives the best renewed hydration, glow, and overall softness is the Laneige Firming Sleeping Pack. Probably my favourite Korean purchase, it does a serious miracle of plumping and adding water back into the skin, and for a real treat I like to apply two layers to really boost that J-Lo glow - after all those previous masks it gets my skin feeling and looking baby soft again *insert all the heart eye emojis*

Whether you use these products or others similar, keeping skin exfoliated and pores cleansed with lots of moisture to rebalance it all does do the skin a world of good - somebody warn the red noses, I've got a generous application of clay mask with their name on it...

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